Both women acknowledge
that it is more than the pure
science of medicine that keeps
them coming to work on a
daily basis. “Oncology as a
profession is an art,” says Rao.
“You are called to it.” Dahiya
agrees and adds, “Oncology
patients are definitely different
from any other kind of
patient. There’s something of
a ‘taboo’ still around the word
cancer. Mention ‘diabetes’
and people are almost
flippant. Mention the word
‘cancer’ and immediately you
have everyone’s attention.”
As a result, Dahiya says,
cancer patients tend to take
instruction very well. “Tell a
diabetes patient to watch their
diet and lose 30 pounds and
they may do it, or they may
lose steam halfway through
and fall back into bad habits.”
Rao concludes, “But tell a
cancer patient the same thing,
and they will follow your
instructions to the letter!”
The end result is that many
cancer patients do better than
patients with other ailments.
Both doctors find that
extremely gratifying. “Most of
our patients are cured of their
cancers because they listen,
and they follow instructions,”
says Dahiya, her faint South
American accent creeping
through as she chuckles.
“Mention the word ‘cancer’ and immediately you have everyone’s attention.”
As a result, Dr. Dahiya says, cancer patients tend to take instruction very well.
“Tell a diabetes patient to watch their diet and lose 30 pounds and they may
do it, or they may lose steam halfway through and fall back into bad habits.”
Dr. Rao concludes, “But tell a cancer patient the same thing, and they will
follow your instructions to the letter!”
Perhaps it’s because these
two doctors are women, but
they have chosen to specialize
with cancers that afflict mostly
women. They are pioneering
a women’s cancer services
center that will specialize in
women affected by breast
and gynecological cancers.
The plan and ultimate goal is
to have one location where
a patient goes for all of her
medical needs. Instead of
driving from location to
location and having to have
information faxed or phoned
or mailed from office to office,
everything will be handled in
one central location. The two
doctors envision holding one
staff meeting and everyone
is informed at one time of
a patient’s protocols and
everyone is privy to the same
information. It is far safer for
the patient, the doctors say,
and it is easier on everyone,
doctors, staff and patients
alike.
The two doctors are not
only concerned with the
physical well-being of their
patients. Rao, for example,
put a support group together
for her cancer patients.
“They know first hand what
another cancer patient is
thinking and feeling at any
given moment,” she explains.
She encourages her patients
to swap phone numbers and
talk to one another. She has
discovered that it has really
helped her patients. But she
too has benefited from it,
in unexpected ways. This
Christmas she was inundated
with gifts, not only for her, but
also for her small child and her
husband. Unlike many doctors
who guard their private lives
jealously, she opened her home
to her patients for a holiday
party. “People think I am crazy
to do this. But it is just a part
of who I am.”
Dahiya says that being with
cancer patients has given her a
different focus on life. “Perhaps
because they become so
grateful for each day they have,
I tend to look at life the same
way they do. I am thankful for
things that others might take
for granted, my health, my
family, and my ability to work
and earn a living. It’s not until
you are faced with the reality
that one day you might not
have those, that you realize
just how important they are.”
The doctors are quietly
proud of their achievements,
and also amazed at how far
medicine as a profession
has come. When she was in
medical school Rao recalls a
professor reading an excerpt
from a doctor’s journal
dated 1895. In it the doctor
instructed another doctor to
‘please help the patient who
has a fumigating mass in her
breast. Please alleviate the
pain as best you can.’ Today no
cancer patient would face that
scenario. In fact, according to
Dahiya, cancer is becoming
almost a chronic illness, rather
than a fatal disease.
With drive and
determination, and with an
eye to the near future and the
coming women’s center, these
two doctors are resolute and
unwavering in their quest to
help their patients, give them
the support and counsel they
need and the hope they’re
looking for.
For more information visit
San Antonio Oncology at
www.oncologysa.com.